In what ways do people today still struggle with tensions between individuality and conformity?

The problem today is people don't know if they wanna be an individual or an conformity. Being an individual, you are a standout from the rest, while a conformity, changes the way he/she/it does things in order to fit in with the rest. I think individuality is the best way to be because your different and not similar to others. You don't have to be like everyone else  to get along with them.